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I once heard that Kate Winslet always asks, “What can I get for free?”

She’s not classically trained, but she’s undeniably brilliant. So basically this “what can I get for free” breaks down to how, on set, she takes whatever the day gives her and weaves it into her performance. If her legs hurt (free), well, so do her character’s. If she has a headache (free), so does her character. She doesn’t fight the moment—she uses it. She builds from it. For free!

That idea has stuck with me.

So today, on day three of my kiddo being home (unexpectedly sick with RSV), I found myself asking the same thing.

When Plans Get Derailed

As the primary caregiver, when my son is home, my plans shift—whether I want them to or not. This week, I had a schedule. I had things to get done. And suddenly, I was working through the night just to keep up. It’s easy to get frustrated when the rhythm you set for yourself gets thrown off.

But instead of leaning into the frustration, I decided to ask:

What can I get for free?

He’s here. He’s my sweet, creative, curious kid. Instead of resisting that, how can I be present in this moment and take something valuable from it?

The Missing Wheel (and a Lesson in Creativity)

Today, we built Legos.

Or rather, he built, and I was given a challenge: make a car.

Only problem? No wheels.

I told him, “There’s no more wheels.”

And with the confidence of someone who has never let a missing part stop him, he looked at me and said:

“Well, that’s when you have to be inspired to make something into a wheel.”

OK, kid. You’re right.

So I did. I figured out a way to build wheels when I didn’t have any. And in that moment, I was reminded of something that’s easy to forget as an adult:

Constraints Aren’t Roadblocks—They’re Creative Fuel

It’s easy to think that creativity comes from unlimited options. But often, it’s the opposite. Some of the most brilliant ideas come from working within constraints—from figuring out how to make a wheel when you don’t have one.

This applies to branding. To business. To life.

We get so caught up in what we don’t have—more time, more resources, more whatever—that we forget to ask:

What do I have right now? And how can I use it?

Kate Winslet does this in her acting. My 6-year-old does this without even thinking about it. And today, I needed that reminder.

Your Turn: What Can You Get for Free?

What’s something in your life or business that feels like a limitation right now? What’s missing? And instead of getting stuck on that… how can you use it?

You might just find a solution that’s more creative, more authentic, and more you than what you originally planned.

Oh, and in case you were wondering—my non-wheel wheels? They worked just fine. ?

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